Song of Songs 1:5-8

Is it alright for godly spouses or people for that matter to have bad days and struggle with certain aspects of life or appearance? What are we as godly spouses to do when we see the one we love having a bad day? What are we to do when we see a brother or sister in Christ having a bad day? How can Jesus fulfill this role as encourager, provider, and protector during our spouse's absence or when we find ourselves alone?